Nobody, or nothing, can change you, unless you allow it.
A closed mind offers protection of views and boundaries for you to
maintain, if that is what you want. You must be open to changes, again and again, or you will remain as you are and as you have been.
Are you content with that?
There is something to be said about consistency. Are you always the
Do you know who you are? Do you know what you want to be?
Change only happens if you want it.