Mythos & Marginalia

life notes; flaws and all

j.g. lewis

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a daily breath...

A thought du jour, my daily breath includes collected and conceived observations, questions of life, fortune cookie philosophies, reminders, messages of peace and simplicity, unsolicited advice, inspirations, quotes and words that got me thinking. They may get you thinking too . . .

Mondays are just young Fridays

I called up a friend on Saturday. 

   I had a question that couldn’t readily be answered by Google, and with my limited knowledge or recollection of the subject matter, I could not satisfy my curiosity.

   It was while I was wondering or trying to figure this all out, that I suddenly had the idea that this certain friend may have an answer, opinion, or perspective I was looking for.

   Now, I hadn’t spoken with this friend for quite some time. She lives in a different city, and while we do keep connected with occasional cards or letters and random comments on Facebook, it has been more than five years since we’ve actually met up in person.

   Still, I felt comfortable enough picking up the phone and making contact.

   I know I surprised her with the call, and her voice was as emphatically cheery as I remembered it to be. I asked the question; we conversed over the intended topic, and I valued her opinion and her recommendations. I expressed my appreciation for her thoughts, and then we went about randomly explaining certain aspects of our lives.

   We spoke of each other’s families, upcoming holiday plans, interests and experiences, relationships, and all the stuff that friends talk about. It was the kind of conversation that seemed to pick up where it left off. We shared, in bits and pieces, what our lives were about in the moment. It is what friends do.

   How one defines a friend — especially in these days where social media uses the term so broadly — is so very subjective. In my phone call Saturday, I realized that his friendship was far more than many others. I am blessed.

   Saturday’s delightful conversation went a lot longer than I imagined it would. It also strengthened a connection that is now more than a decade old. Given that I will soon be moving, and we will soon be in the same city, I am looking forward to experiencing this friendship on a more regular basis.

   A true friend is one you can call up at random, ask questions and have answers provided with clarity and consideration. Friendship recognizes where you are but eliminates the distance.

   Friendship is the type of thing you want more of.

   A friend is more than a name and number in your address book. Friendship allows you to use that number whenever it is needed.

11/25/2024                                                                                                                                            j.g.l.

 

this journey

How do we choose to travel?
What is reliable in the rain?
What is our ultimate destination,
for this time, this journey, or
this day?
We move at the speed of life.
Depending on traffic, others
may chose to follow your path,
but not your direction.

© 2021 j.g. lewis

this season

A little cold, little wet,

a little tired and yet

I am here. Still,

full of wonder.

The morning chill leaves

little to the imagination

and much less

to hope for.

Expected, perhaps, as it

always is, this time, this

season is only what

we ask of it.

11/21/2024                                                                                                                    j.g.l.

I'm like a pencil;
sometimes sharp,
most days
well-rounded,
other times
dull or
occasionally
broken.
Still I write.

j.g. lewis
is a writer/photographer in Toronto.

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A Greater Appreciation

Posted on November 13, 2016 by j.g.lewis Leave a comment

leonard

Unfortunately, my introduction to Leonard Cohen was through his music.
  Grade 11 photography class, a black + white time exposure assignment, I spent days planning. I was going to shoot a tone arm travelling across a record. There was a tiny orange light above the stylus that would illuminate the smooth arc and provide the desired effect.
  I had to calculate how much time the shutter would remain open and how little light I needed to let in; a delicate balance, but I remember is was to be 21 minutes, about the length of one side of an LP record.
  The room where I was shooting would be in absolute darkness.
  I set up the 4 x 5 view camera, adjusted the composition, and selected a record from the school library. I picked a Cohen album because it had a red label, a colour that would provide enough of a contrast from the shiny vinyl, but would not become the focus of attention.
  It didn’t matter to me, then, what the record was; this was all about the visual.
I went back to the room, loaded the film, and sealed myself in with a jacket silencing any light trying to seep in under the door.
  After dropping the needle on the disc, I flicked off the light switch and clicked the shutter release. The only light in the room was the tone arm, a small off/on light I cropped out of the photo, and an alarm clock with a glowing dark face.
  And I waited.
  I don’t remember which album it was, but I’d never heard it before. It was an acoustic guitar and Cohen’s deep dark voice. I didn’t really bother trying to get into it, as this was all about the image I was trying to capture. I remember thinking I should have selected another album. I was 16. I liked rock and roll. This record was anything but.
  When the alarm sounded, I closed the shutter and clicked on the lights, then proceeded to the darkroom where I processed the negative. The results were okay, but not exactly what I wanted. I decided to adjust the aperture and add another few minutes.
  I returned to the room, made the adjustments, and again listened to Leonard Cohen for 23 minutes. At some point during that time, I discovered in processing, I must have inadvertently nudged the tripod. The image suffered from camera shake.
  Another reshoot, another 23 minutes of the same record (I never thought to turn off the volume), but this time I had forgotten to block off the light from under the door.
  One more time, more Leonard Cohen. Another 23 minutes. The result was exactly what I wanted. I produced a portfolio-worthy photograph, and for that I was pleased.
  Thing is, I had to listen to the same songs on the same side of the same Leonard Cohen album, over and over. And to a teenager who would have rather been listening to Pink Floyd, The Who, Bruce Springsteen, or anything with a pulse, Leonard Cohen wasn’t doing it for me.
  Think about it: hours in a pitch dark room, me; by myself, listening to nothing but Leonard Cohen. Over and over, and over. I think you might get the picture.
  I love music, most kinds of music (some more than others), but Leonard Cohen was never on my favorites list (not even close) and I have never bothered trying to get any closer to his music. I’d heard enough.
  That’s not to say I don’t admire his words. The poetry of Leonard Cohen is heartfelt, honest, and inspiring. I have read him, quite a bit, and always felt what was on the page was far stronger than what was on the record. I know all about the singer/songwriter thing, and I pretty much put Bob Dylan into the same category.
  I feel it was not his voice, nor his melodies, than made Cohen, but his words were wonders, and they will live on.
  A poet died this week.
  Because of his death we will read a little more from Cohen’s past. Those who have read him before will find a little more comfort in his work. Those who have not yet read his talent will be blessed.
  We will have greater appreciation now for the poetry of Leonard Cohen, it always seems there is more power found in a dead poet’s words.

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