
We all have limitations. At times these limitations are obvious, or so subtle you do not realize they are constraints until you are partway through a task.
Limitations come with age; I’ve been feeling that lately. Not always, or not often, but I do feel it.
I am growing older.
I will reach a milestone birthday this week. It is an age that, as a teenager, I couldn’t imagine reaching or being. Friday, I turn 65. That’s old . . . at least, that’s what I used to think when it seemed so far off.
Now, it is here, and I accept it as an age I will be.
Or maybe I realize that the age, and the aging process, is far better than the alternative. I don’t want to think about that, even less than I want to think about aging. But I am.
I am growing older; it has become obvious to me.
These past months, a task that even a year ago I did not feel was difficult turned into a challenge. Interior painting is something I have done, often, over my lifetime. In fact, household painting was something I felt I was good at; the results seemed to prove it.
There are also the regular tasks involved in home improvements that I have learned over the years, and they are becoming a little more trying. I am (or have become) relatively handy with the hammer and nail (and all the sawing and drilling and measuring and elemental steps involved). Recently, however, these projects have not been as easy as they once were.
I don’t seem as steady, or as strong, as I used to be.
It now takes me a little more effort, a bit more thought, and a few extra days for my projects to become a reality.
Recently, it seems, it’s not only about taking time, but I also need a bit more assistance to get through my planned undertakings. I have had to, occasionally, ask for help. That is somewhat frustrating for someone who considers himself relatively independent.
I used to think I got better with age. Now I am not quite as sure.
I’m not as young as I used to be, and I am reminded daily. I require greater patience. I need to take my time and do so knowing I have less of that ahead of me than I once did. That is my reality.
My Mom used to tell me I could do anything I put my mind to, so I’ve always kept this in mind as I’ve passed through this life. After six decades plus, I have become pretty good at some things by studying, practicing and trying. I’m a big proponent of learning as I go. I have learned a lot over my lifetime.
Much of the time I can do not only what I want to do, but also what I must do. Now it just takes more time than I thought I had. I suppose patience is being forced upon me.
Maybe that’s one of those life lessons I have learned gradually. Patience requires time. Perhaps I am finally at the age where I can accept that.
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