Is there a price to independence? Freedom comes at a cost emotionally if not financially. Choices not always obvious, you take what you can, when something is taken from you. A choice, again,but why must we always choose for others? If it is not only for the self, it is mainly for you. No regrets. If what you had were all you had lost, would you question again the price and the costs of possessions and decisions.
Rest your eyes. You have seen so much humanity and pain, happiness or joy. The eyes strain to take everything in. We see what is before us, sometimes it is not easy. Sometimes it is not all; sometimes it is too much. Our vision is not always clear. We become weary of dealing with it all. Rest your eyes. Give your soul a break.
I love opinion, even those I don’t agree with. A good opinion shows character; and I mean a ‘good’ opinion not by right or wrong (or whether I agree with it) but by how it is expressed. If a point of view is presented succinctly, mindfully, with conviction and personal belief, I can respect it (even if I don’t like it). It is the wishy-washy opinions — those peppered with anecdote, references to assorted documents and dogma, quoting the views of others or reading off the script — that I have problems with. They are disingenuous, often cluttered, or conveniently slip off-topic by introducing argument and unrelated angles, as if they are not entirely certain. I would prefer someone express no opinion than one that is half-assed or not fully thought out. Say what YOU mean, but mean what YOU say: that is opinion. It says what you stand for. I’m of the opinion that if you listen to the opinions of others you will learn something. If you listen to others, your personal point of view will be expanded, maybe even altered, or you will become more certain of your stance than ever before.
So much is worth less now than it was even last week, or last year. Do we consciously recall interest rates, the power of the buck, or the sliding scale of humanity? Here we are collecting silence without interest or any semblance of knowledge. Our truth seldom realized, we mainly struggle individually, collectively, anonymously, hoping there is room for prayer in the dialogue we create, the stories we tell, and memories we count on to provide some sort of satisfaction to our give-and-take existence. Emotionally depleted, morally depreciated, we learn (or we have learnt) not to count on politicians, talk show hosts, or even your daily horoscope for answers or admonishment. Do we call this survival or another attempt?